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“God puts rainbows in the clouds so that each of us –
in the dreariest and most dreaded moments –
can see a possibility of hope.” – Maya Angelou
Sister Mark Friday, 88, a Sister of Charity of Leavenworth (SCL) for 69 years, died on Nov. 27, 2021, in Ross Hall at the SCL Mother House in Leavenworth, Kan.
Victoria M. Friday was born on Nov. 9, 1933, in Kansas City, Kan., the oldest of five children of Victor and Gladys (O’Such) Friday. She graduated from St. Stephen’s Academy (grade school) and St. Aloysius Academy (middle and high school) in Kansas City, Mo. At St. Stephen’s, she was first introduced to SCL Sisters, who had a deep influence on her life.
She entered the SCL Community on Aug. 21, 1952, and professed vows as Sister Mark Friday on Aug. 22, 1954. In 1965, she received a B.S. degree in education from Saint Mary College.
Sister Mark devoted her life to Catholic education. She served as a teacher and administrator for 48 years in schools in Colorado, Montana, Wyoming, Oklahoma, Kansas, and Missouri. She was especially proud of her 29 years of service to the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, where she served largely as a teacher, assistant principal, vice-principal, and religion coordinator for St. Ann School in Prairie Village, Kan.
For Sister Mark, educating students was a life passion. Her educational philosophy was captured in a simple phrase: “If you are a good edu-carer, you will be a good educator.” This caring spirit and her steadying influence helped St. Louis Grade School in Kanas City, Mo., cope with the tension of racial integration during the turbulent 1960s.
Sister Mark’s ability to respond in the midst of crisis was tested outside the classroom too. On June 8, 1966, a devastating tornado landed near Sacred Heart School in Topeka, Kan., where Sister Mark served. She scrambled from the school’s basement, still shaking off broken glass, to help survivors. The storm, which demolished many neighborhood homes, left debris everywhere. For the next twelve days, area residents recalled the sight of a nun in a blue-checkered apron and mud-caked tennis shoes going from family to family to provide assistance and help direct relief efforts. Besides working with the Red Cross, Sister Mark recruited local teenagers, armed with shovels and other tools, to help families recover needed lost items. Her self-sacrifice, charity, and caring spirit made her a neighborhood legend.
After her retirement, Sister enjoyed spending time with family and using her teaching gifts where needed. She kept a card from her Silver Jubilee Celebration, marking her 25-year anniversary as an SCL, which she celebrated in 1977. The card contains a quote from Cardinal John Henry Newman, part of which could sum up Sister Mark’s life as an SCL: “I am a link in a chain, a bond of connection between persons. He has not created me for naught. I shall do good. I shall do his work.”
Preceding Sister Mark in death were her parents and one sibling, Caroline Poje. Survivors include one sister, Pat Vochatzer, and two brothers, John Friday and William Friday. She is also survived by nieces and nephews and the SCL Community.
A vigil will be held at 7:00 p.m. on Thursday, Dec. 9, in Ross Chapel, SCL Mother House, Leavenworth. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Ross Chapel at 10:30 a.m. on Friday, Dec. 10. Interment will follow in Mount Olivet Cemetery, Mother House grounds. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, attendance is restricted to family and invited guests only. Memorial contributions may be made to the Sisters of Charity of Leavenworth, 4200 S. 4th Street, Leavenworth, Kan. 66048. Arrangements were made by Belden-Larkin Funeral Home, Leavenworth.
Sister Mark was a very important member of our family. She will be greatly missed. When I think of all the memories she left us with it makes me happy. She is with her eternal father and will brighten the gates of Heaven.
As a very young student at St Helena grade school, and on through high school, Sister Mark had a profound impact on mine many others lives. That continued as she loved to visit on the phone, and keep up with her former students lives. She is truly resting in peace in heaven, and will continue that impact.
Sister Mark was a true beacon of light and kindness in my 22 years at St. Ann School. She had an instinct for knowing when someone needed comfort, whether it was a student, teacher or a parent. She did so much for my own family when my older daughter joined a convent at 19. Those first few years were so hard on our family and Sr. Mark was a tremendous help to us. She was like a wonderful grandmother to our family. I will truly miss your laugh, your smile and your big heart. Farewell my dear friend.
I have fond memories helping Sister Mark as a student of Saint Anns way back as well as helping her at her nearby apartment. I loved her stories she would tell. May God watch over and protect you day in and day out. Your birds will fly with you! Love you and you will be greatly missed.
Sister Mark was a master educator. When she shared stories from her teaching career, I would marvel at her creativity and ability to make complicated concepts clear. She was definitely ahead of her times. As one of the teachers at St. Ann, I observed that Sister was always listening and offered encouragement when she recognized that one of her colleagues was struggling. She was firm, but loving when disciplining a student. Sister’s dedication to her mission was obvious, and all who knew her benefited from her work ethic and example of Christian love.
Sr Mark was a kind living person. We always enjoyed seeing and visiting with her at the Friday reunions. May she RIP
I fondly remember Sister Mark and the Friday family from my years at Whatsoever Community Center. May she RIP.
I was a pupil of Sister Mark for one year, in 1976 and 1977, at Holy Family School in Grand Junction, CO. I still think of her often, as she was exceedingly kind but also firm in her expectations, delivered with kindness.
A couple of years after I was no longer her pupil, my family suffered a tragedy. Sister Mark reached out and provided much needed guidance and perspective in dealing with it.
I lived in Kansas City for 15 years, and sometimes had occasion to drive by the mother house in Leavenworth. A great regret is not taking the time to stop by to say hello.
Requiescat in pace, dear Sister.